Kiss and Make up? Not always!

As, not every dirt can be washed away, every feeling too, no matter how good or bad, it is difficult to wipe out. The days are gone when life was easy as needs and expectations were very scanty. World is no more a place where people lived with love and harmony. The time when we are armed with a mobile in our hand and an accesses to a couple of dozen social networking sites to keep in touch yet we hardly do anything for each other that are close to our heart. We are living in a glass bowl, that contains I, me, we and ours. In older days, it was difficult to get lost, miles away from your home you would still have been recognized. Today you may even not know your next-door neighbours.

Some of its blame goes to the current breed of politicians and different political parties, those are exploiting the young generation for their personal gain, their mantra is hate and hit. When we look at different political parties, of course I am quite neutral but not denying the fact that having little weakness for the Congress. Once an old Maharashtrian woman whom I met while traveling in a local train in Mumbai, she disclosed innocently that she always supports Congress because the generations before her were supporting the same, quite traditional. If my grandmother was still alive would have been very angry with me for this revelation because she was always reluctant to disclose about her political inclinations. Even my support to the Congress, I never liked Nehru as a prime minister but he was a gentleman and knew how to respect the oppositions. It is no secret that politicians promised a lot and failed in their promise but in older times they used tell us what they are going to do for us rather than telling about others failure. Therefore, life is more is finding fault in others than knowing and acknowledging ones own mistakes. It is not always an easy task to forget all bitterness and forgive others, living with hatred feelings is no good, it is more self destructive than hurting the subject in question. 

Just giving a sermon to forget and forgive is easy but not easy for those whose life is severely affected. It said that in love and war everything is legal, so Maria Susiraj and his boyfriend killed an innocent guy, chopped his body in pieces and then bag full of innocent flesh thrown into a remote area. A woman who went to destroy two innocent young lives and yet today’s media chasing her around the city, then there is Ram Gopal Verma and the Big Boss team waiting for her with a red carpet. I do not except the victim Neeraj Verma’s family to forgive Maria Susiraj. I, myself will never forgive the killers of Neerja Bhanot , the Indian airlines Air Hostess, who died in Karachi airport while saving passengers life from the hijackers. Not in a mood to forgive Kashab or people behind the 26/11 attack in Mumbai. Always wanted to see them to the gallows and same for the culprits those time and time bombing a crowded place and killing innocent peoples. Cannot forget that horrible afternoon of March 12, 1993, when serial bomb blast rocked the city of Mumbai. I was very much around their and still cannot forget the sound of blasts that interrupted my and my colleagues lunch session.

The above incidents are so huge, therefore, there are no places for forgiveness but we often bring out small things in personal front that causes a personal enmity with close ones.

Like global warming and greenhouse effect that damages the environment, needs a serious constructive step, same way the word tolerance is also vanishing from our syllabi.

!!!Why not small thing can be overlooked for the wider happiness?!!!